When you share your joy it is doubled--share your sorrow and it is halved and remember “You live longer realizing that any time spent being Un-happy is wasted.”

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“You live longer once you realize that any time spent being

Un-happy is wasted.”

--Ruth E. Renkle

After marriage there may be times when you may feel your relationship is humdrum, sad and what you perceive to be unhappy. Once you realize that dwelling and pouting on the unhappy times is time wasted, you are on the way to living a longer and happier life.  Even if you believe that “Marriages are made in heaven” it is essential to its success that you develop patience and understanding, and that your faith be strong and especially that you expand your lines of communication. If you cannot change your mind you cannot alter anything in life and love becomes stagnant. Happiness in marriage comes with change and change is not possible without communicating. Did you know the four most intimidating words in a couple’s vocabulary are, “We need to talk”? Continued interaction will help you through sorrowful times and when you communicate your affections with your loved ones and begin to perceive their needs of love you will be surprised at what happens. When life seems humdrum you need to develop a stronger attitude of trust and hope. Remember that love is an act of endless forgiveness and adjustment.

Random Reflections

·         When you share your joy it is doubled---share your sorrow and it is halved.

·         Forgiveness is almost a selfish act because of its immense benefits to the one who forgives.

·         Learn to prioritize to become successful and happy in life.

·         It really doesn’t matter if the person who hurt you deserves to be forgiven. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.  You have things to do and you need to move on.

Wow!  Need a gift for that special friend or loved one?  Purchase a book for you and one for them from your local book store, on-line or directly from me.  It is now available personally GET ”Celubrious”  autographed with free delivery one paperback and one hardback for only $25.00 by calling me ASAP at 330-718-6654 as operators are standing by.

“You live longer once you realize that any time spent being

Un-happy is wasted.”

--Ruth E. Renkle

After marriage there may be times when you may feel your relationship is humdrum, sad and what you perceive to be unhappy. Once you realize that dwelling and pouting on the unhappy times is time wasted, you are on the way to living a longer and happier life.  Even if you believe that “Marriages are made in heaven” it is essential to its success that you develop patience and understanding, and that your faith be strong and especially that you expand your lines of communication. If you cannot change your mind you cannot alter anything in life and love becomes stagnant. Happiness in marriage comes with change and change is not possible without communicating. Did you know the four most intimidating words in a couple’s vocabulary are, “We need to talk”? Continued interaction will help you through sorrowful times and when you communicate your affections with your loved ones and begin to perceive their needs of love you will be surprised at what happens. When life seems humdrum you need to develop a stronger attitude of trust and hope. Remember that love is an act of endless forgiveness and adjustment.

Random Reflections

·         When you share your joy it is doubled---share your sorrow and it is halved.

·         Forgiveness is almost a selfish act because of its immense benefits to the one who forgives.

·         Learn to prioritize to become successful and happy in life.

·         It really doesn’t matter if the person who hurt you deserves to be forgiven. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.  You have things to do and you need to move on.

CHOICES FOR YOU

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“I have discovered I always have choices and sometimes it’s only a

choice of attitude.”

--Judith M. Knowlton

You were born unique with an individual mind, character and spirit, but they were not your choices. As you grew older you were influenced by those who made choices for you and in some cases wanted to make you their clone. When you feel or believe that your life is being manipulated and that you have no control over it, guess what? You don’t! Your negative attitude has limited your ability to make choices wisely.  However, with the correct attitude correct choices become easier.  You can’t always control the situation but you can choose how you react to it with the correct attitude. When you find yourself in the company of thoughtless individuals, trying to manipulate everyone remember “Correct attitude leads to correct choices.”  You always have choices and in reality you are free to alter who you are, what you believe, and what you see as your purpose in life with your choice of attitude. Consciously cultivating positive attitudes, such as love, joy, and gratitude will help to “Remake” the world around you. You will literally live in a different place because your attitude about it has changed.

Random Reflections

·      Take control of your life; choose to have a positive attitude.

·         As long as you believe that you are free to make choices and you choose a positive attitude, you are safe.

·         Wake up - decide to have a good day. “Today is the day the Lord hath made; let us rejoice & be glad in it." Psalms 118:24

Don’t be like Dilbert who says, “My reality check just bounced!”